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You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger and enjoy the open lifestyle. Single swingers and polyamorous people, learn how to navigate the open lifestyle with these expert tips.
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Elevated Intimacy
Tantra coach Justin Gottlieb draws on 20 years in the lifestyle to share tips that help your next sex party feel safer and far more connected.

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The Scary Side of the Lifestyle
Swinging coach Lauren gets real about ghosting and the elusive four-way match, and explains why the lifestyle's hard truths are worth pushing through.

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What If You’re Not Into Them?
Sitting at dinner and feeling no spark? Lauren Hayes of SwingingCoach shares how to say no with kindness and confidence, and why expectation kills desire.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.

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Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.


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Drama in the Lifestyle
Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy get real about lifestyle drama and why honesty and genuine friendship should always come before play.

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What We Didn’t Know About The Lifestyle
Frisky Neighbors Saphyre and Carnelian share the surprises of their early lifestyle days, from endless costume themes to learning swinging isn't polyamory.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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Cuckolding for Beginners: How Couples Explore Cucking Safely
A grounded starting point for couples ready to turn the fantasy into something real.

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PREMIUM
Erotic Resurrection
The Erotic Godmother reveals why eroticism begins not with sex but with feeling your own skin, and how tending yourself like a garden awakens desire.

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PREMIUM
Lifestyle Events 101
Think big lifestyle events are only for pros? Lauren Hayes explains why they're the perfect first step and how to prep with your partner.


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How Did You Get THAT From What I Just Said?
Ever say something you swear was clear… and your partner responds like you spoke an entirely different language? That “dog hearing a weird noise” look, followed by: “How did you get THAT from what I just said?!”

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.